- White Candle (the candle should be a slender candle that is at least 10 inches long )
- Annointing Oil - your choice
- Red, Purple, and Gold glitter
- Black thread
The knotted thread should be spaced 1 inch apart along the length of the candle, and as you tie the knots, visualize the obstacles or the patterns, ideas, beliefs, or behaviors that are keeping you from being the charismatic commanding presence you wish to be.
Place the candle on your altar in a candle holder, and light it.
Stand confidently in front of the candle and visualize yourself as a commanding presence... visualize people listening to your every word, and responding to you in a positive way. Say the following charm three times, with feeling:
"Commanding charisma I emote unto thee,
my words speak the truth, you'll listen to me."
As the candle burns, each of the nine pieces of black thread will break and/or burn, and as they do, any obstacles preventing you from being listened to and respected will be destroyed as well.